What Not to Wear
Oh dear, I had a client ask about wearing flip-flops in Europe -- that would be a "no." She hadn't thought about cobblestone streets, narrow stairs, and slippery stone floors. But it's more than just a safety issue -- flip-flops simply aren't acceptable footwear in Europe, except maybe at the beach. Europeans don't dress as casually as Americans do when they are out-and-about.
So, if you want to blend in a bit more and not stick out as the obvious and untravelled American, go for comfortable sandals or "walker" style shoes (I love those Skechers) instead. Bulky white tennis shoes are OK -- but won't be seen as very stylish.
Same goes for jeans -- they are OK, but why not pop on a pair of khakis instead? They are just as comfortable, look much dressier, and blend in better with the local style. Capris are fine, but shorts are a no-no in churches and nice restaurants. Sleeveless tops are frowned upon, too, and not allowed in most churches. These suggestions work for men as well as women -- and I say that just as I was about to mention skirts!
No, the men don't wear skirts except for the manly kilts of Scotland -- but European women tend to favor skirts, so for the ladies I always recommend packing one or two that are comfortable. They can be just as easy-wearing as jeans, but look so much nicer. You'll see the women wearing dresses and skirts mostly with stylish flats -- high heels are another hazard when walking on stone and uneven sidewalks!
On just about any vacation, I recommend dressing in layers -- but especially on cruises that sail to a variety of destinations. You just never know what the weather will be like, or when you'll need to pop on a little sweater (like in a freezing museum, for instance). Carry a lightweight tote where you can put your sweater, umbrella, camera, guide book, and so on (don't put your money and passports in it, though).
Another consideration is packing light -- walkers and cotton pants and skirts are lighter and less bulky than tennis shoes and jeans. Every little bit matters when you are faced with airline fees for extra or overweight luggage.
In the Caribbean, I have never taken a pair of jeans -- it's just too hot! Go ahead -- take those tank tops, shorts, swim covers, and flip-flops. But don't over-pack -- you won't need as much as you think. I write down everything that I think I might want to take, then look at what I can wear twice -- and soon my list is half as long. If my trip or cruise is longer than a week, then I plan to do a batch of laundry along the way, and then I get my list down even further.
Does anyone have a great packing tip to share? Please add a comment!